Another question... please answer this one for me please!?

He is a hit it and quit it type of guy. And, you are right... he should approach you to see his baby. I hope you find true happiness with a great guy, you deserve to be happy! Congrats on your newest bundle of joy! Thank goodness his parents are stepping up to the plate, I hope you can maintain a relationship with them, they seem 100% delighted with you and with their grandchild. (^_^)